Behaviour SOS

some of the behaviours i help moms change

Always interrupting when you’re talking with people and constantly making you feel overwhelmed

Screaming and crying every time things don’t go their way or they have to do something they don’t want to

Pushing your buttons and doing crap to get your attention (even if negative)

Being defiant, constantly refusing to do what they need to do and making everything feel like a struggle

Hurting Sibblings, threatning to hurt mom or being mean

Constantly asking for your help with things they can already do alone

Children aren’t born with instruction manuals – It’s not something you just know

and you don’t have to figure it out alone

As moms, we have this idea that we should just know how to raise happy, healthy children—and that if we don’t, there’s something wrong with us. As if, the moment we became parents, we were struck by a magic lightning bolt that instantly taught us everything about childhood development, behavior, and parenting.

But let me ask you this: If you want to drive a car, don’t you first learn how? You can’t just take the wheel and hope for the best, or read a book and hit the road, or even just listen to someone teach you the theory of driving. You need someone to actually sit next to you in a car as you take the wheel, guiding you as you drive in real-life traffic.

Somehow, as moms, we put this pressure on ourselves to figure it all out on our own—without support and without losing our minds in the process. But children are much more complex than cars, and you already know firsthand how much more demanding parenting is than driving,

So think of me as your parenting driving instructor— here to sit beside you as you navigate the challenges of parenting, guiding you step by step to help you transform your child’s behavior and create a calmer, happier home in a way that works for YOU and your family.

your child is not a bad kid

they just need your help to learn how to behave differently

Your child is not being difficult on purpose or trying to annoy you or push your buttons.
Every time their behaviour is challenging, they are showing you that they need your help to learn the skills necessary to deal with the emotions, wants and needs that they are experiencing in that moment.
To effectively stop the behaviour and prevent it from reocurring, you need to teach your child the self-regulation skills to be able to handle their big emotions, social-emotional skills to overcome disappointment and frustration, as well as problem solving skills to face life challenges.
Only by learning those skills, will your child be able to face similar situations independently in the future in a positive and appropriate way. And those tools will not only change their behaviour, they will continue empowering and supporting your child throughout their whole life.

Learn what’s causing your child’s behaviour
and exactly what to do to shift it in the moment — and prevent it from happening again in the future

To effectively change your child’s behaviour, you can’t just focus on what’s happening in the moment, you need to address what’s causing the behaviour.
Only by teaching your child the social-emotional tools and life skills that they need to be able to address things differently, will you be able to prevent the behaviour from reocurring in the future.

Let me show you how to change Your child’s behaviour

Solutions Tailored to YOUR Child and Your Reality

Parenting needs to be adjusted to your unique child, not the other way around.
It also needs to be realistic and fit into your actual family life instead of trying to force parenting “shoulds” that you just won’t realistically be able to keep up.
Learn step-by-step behavioural transformation strategies that take into account your unique child’s personality, their developmental stage and your specific life circumstances – from a certified Positive Discipline Parent Educator and Early Childhood Educator specialized in Ages 3 to 6.

support that fits your busy life

How it works

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Fill out a diagnostic form telling me all about your child, what’s happening, what you tried so far, how your child reacts, your concerns, your family circumstances and all the details I need to have a clear picture of the situation

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I’ll analyze everything you shared and create a step-by-step plan to change your child’s behaviour with positive discipline. I’ll record a video explaining what’s causing the behaviour, what to avoid so it doesn’t escalate, and all the steps of your plan in detail so you know exactely what to do

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You’ll receive your video per E-mail and can watch it in your own time. You’ll also receive a PDF with all the steps so you can print it and have it at hand when you need it most

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Implement the steps with your child and see their behaviour transform. 😍


As Much Support As you need

Just Tell Me What To Do

behaviour SOS

  • Personalized Behavioural Plan tailored to your child and your unique situation
  • A video made just for you explaining what’s causing your child’s behaviour, what to do to change it and how to implement every single step of your plan – so you know exactely what to do

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Behaviour sos + implementation

  • Everything included in Behaviour SOS
  • 2 Weeks of Chat Coaching and implementation Support guiding you as you implement your plan, answering all your questions and showing you exactely how to respond to your parenting challenges as they arise, so you never feel like you’re doing it alone.

* If you choose to pay in installments, your 10 days of chat coaching will only take place after the second installment (see FAQ for details)

** No V.A.T. applies according to § 19 UStG  **

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Implementation

  • Support every step of the way, answering all your questions as you’re facing your day-to-day parenting challenges, supporting you whenever you need and making sure you’re always on the right track
  • Your Behavioural Transformation Plan will be continually adjusted in real-time to your child’s responses, your feedback and changes in your family routines so you’re always focusing on the strategies that are working the best for you, your child and your family.
support every step of the way

Hi, I’m Cristina!

I truly believe that, with a little help, every parent can effectively transform their child’s behaviour through support and connection and create more calm and cooperation in their homes in a way that feels good.

Often we need someone to not just point us in the right direction but actually help us implement things in our day-to-day lives. Otherwise it becomes just one more to-do list on your fridge that soon gets covered by all your other to-do lists as life starts happening.

That’s why I’ll support you every step of the way, making sure you see consistent change as you tackle your day-to-day parenting challenges. You’ll have your own parenting coach in your back pocket, offering 1-on-1 support and giving you the confidence of knowing you’re not doing it alone. You’ll always have someone to ask questions and get the direction you need.

Let’s transform your child’s behavior together so you can stop feeling like you’re surviving motherhood and focus on really cherishing these precious short years with your little one.

Positive Parenting Coach Specialized in Ages 3 to 6
Certified Positive Discipline Parent Educator and Early Childhood Educator

Mom to a Preschooler
WHAT MOMS SAY

100% found me helpful

  • The biggest AHA moment for me was that our child doesn’t want us to have a button – that really stuck with me – and see it from their perspective.
    So helpful!

    Cristina is a wealth of knowledge and it helps so much!
    Katie
  • My favourite part was understanding the other side/the child. The biggest takeaway for me was having more empathy and compassion in the moment and listen to the real messages from kids.
    So insightful with alternative practical easy solutions.
    Cristina is awsome, energetic and real.
    Amanda Wakefield
  • My biggest lesson was “Dont give up on a bad day. Every single interaction with the child is an opportunity to PRACTICE.”
    Reading a book isnt enough. It is SO hard to change, therefore it is SO helpful to have Cristina guiding you.
    Céline
  • Cristina is realistic, kind, empathetic and understanding.
    The biggest lesson for me was “Connection before Correction“. 
    Karen
  • I see things differently. I love these changes because they help me build a strong bond with my kids.
    Mariama
  • I learned ways to deal with the situation and solutions.
    The biggest takeway for me was “Don’t force child”. 
    Sana
  • My AHA moment was looking at the situation from a new perspective and looking for alternative ideas to difuse the situation.
    This gives a better perspective to deal with the situation as a parent.
    A mom
  • It is very useful for parents to understand the issue to better prepare themselves for tough situations
    Khalid
  • I learned that our parenting styles matter with the child we are shaping. It means, if we are doing this parenting style, then we are shaping/molding a child to be this kind of person. So as a parent, it is wiser to choice the best parenting style because we are not just dealing the day to day circumstances with our kids but we are shaping them to be the person they can be when they grow. 
    How to approach my kids in a positive way and with the goal of achieving the life skills that I wanted to impart to my kids when they grow.
    Genelynn Factor

Frequently Asked Questions

This is not parenting tips on how to put a bandage on the behaviour. You’ll get a real understanding of what’s causing your child’s behaviour and how to give your child the social-emotional and life skills they need to deal with the situation differently so that you’re able to, not only stop the behaviour in the moment, but prevent it from happening again.

Behaviour SOS includes:

  • 1 Personalized Video explaining your child’s behaviour and what to do, step-by-step, to change it
  • 1 Printable PDF with your personalized step-by-step behavioral transformation plan

Behavior SOS + Implementation includes also:

  • 10 working days of 1-on-1 chat support to help you implement your plan, answer all your questions and help you overcome parenting challenges along the way

I would love to but in order to be able to dive deep into what’s causing each child’s behaviour and create a detailed behavioural plan that will effectively create lasting change for each one of your children, you will need to make a seperate booking for each child.

Your behavioural plan will be focused on only one child and the most challenging behaviour you are currently experiencing with that child.

That being said, the plan will have into consideration all relevant information to your child’s behaviour, including your child’s relationationship and interactions with other children and adults in their homes and lives.

If you want to address multiple children, please contact me so we can find the best way for me to help you.

The strategies on your behavioral plan are very simple to implement and fit easily into your busy family life. They are meant to make your life easier so they will not add stress to your life – they will reduce it.

Please note that your specific action steps will depend on your individual needs and those of your particular child, The example below was given to a mom who was feeling very touched-out by her very needy 4 year old daughter.

Behavior Action Step

Today everytime you want to tell your child to do something, rephrase your command in the form of a question. Example: instead of saying “put on your shoes”, ask “what do you need to put on your feet to go outside?” Here are more examples:

  • What do we use to keep our hair neat?
  • What do we need to brush our teeth?
  • What do we wear so we aren’t cold outside?
  • What do you need to put on your feet to go outside?

After you book the Behaviour SOS + Implementation, I will send you an email with your behavioural transformation plan, the video I made for you and the exact 10 working days for your chat coaching, as well as the necessary information to access it.

You can ask me all your questions whenever you want (even outside the days of your chat coaching) but I will only reply on your coaching days. I will however reply to all the questions you asked previously.

I will also adjust your plan as needed based on your feedback to make sure it’s always adjusted to your unique child, to you and to your family situation.

For the Behaviour SOS installments aren’t possible.

For the Behaviour SOS + Implementation you can pay in 2 installments:

  • The first payment will be done at the time of booking. You will be immediately redirected to your diagnostic form to fill out and then I will send you an email with your personalized behavioural transformation plan, the video I will record for you and the link to pay the second installment. You will start implementing your behavioural transformation plan independently.
  • Once you pay your second installment, I’ll send you an email with the details for the chat coaching.

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After payment you will see the Diagnostic Form for you to fill out. I will then review your answers, record your video and create your personalized action plan and send them to you per E-mail. 
If you booked the Behaviour SOS + Implementation, I will also send you the exact 10 working days for your chat coaching as well as the necessary information to access it.

You will be immediately redirected to the diagnostic form. Please fill it out after payment. I will then create your child’s behavioural plan and your personalized email and send you both per E-mail.

If you booked the Behaviour SOS + Implementation, I will also send you the exact 10 working days for your chat coaching as well as the necessary information to access it.

No refunds. You will get immediate access to the diagnostic form and therefore the service starts immediately.

If you have any questions or if you’re not sure if this is what you need for your specific circumstances, DM me on Messenger, Instagram or Tiktok.
Or alternatively write your questions below and I will answer you directly to your email address.